Tuesday 22 October 2024

The Future of British Quakerism

Silent disco in a cathedral
I have just returned from The Future of British Quakerism conference, organised by Quakers in Britain and Woodbrooke. There was, understandably, a lot of talk about ageing, decline and even impending ‘catastrophic collapse’. For many people, Quakerism in Britain appears to be dying, either gradually or imminently.

I am convinced that we do have a future, mainly because there are so many committed young Friends all over the country who will still be around in 30 or 40 years, and have no intention of giving up their Quaker practice and identity. But the shape of Quakerism in the future will be very different to the one we have inherited.

What we are experiencing is not death but transformation. As one Friend ministered at the conference, we are in a time of transition. Some forms are ending, and others beginning, or waiting to begin. This is a place of weakness and unknowing. It can be hard to endure the uncertainty of transition, but there are already some signs of the emerging shape of British Quakerism in the future.

It seems inevitable that in 20 years there will be far fewer Quaker meetings with their own Meeting Houses; probably only in large cities and a few prosperous towns. But there will also be a greater diversity of other kinds of Quaker community. These may include many kinds of small groups meeting at different times and intervals in community spaces, rented rooms and outdoors.

There is likely to be an even larger number of people whose most regular engagement with other Quakers is online, perhaps supplemented by retreats, camps or other in-person events. There will almost certainly be a broad range of Quaker activist groups and networks focussed on particular concerns such as the climate emergency, migration and peace. Alongside this, I anticipate a greater diversity of forms of Quaker practice, belonging and spirituality, with most Friends having a much looser connection to area meetings and Britain Yearly Meeting as a whole.

In other words it looks much more like a movement than one monolithic organisation.

In some ways this picture resembles the current landscape of western Buddhism, which is mostly practised by a thriving ecosystem of small groups in a range of rented spaces, with just a few Buddhist-owned buildings and residential centres, plus various camps and festivals. It is worth noting that this works. Against a trend of falling religious affiliation in UK society, Buddhism is continuing to grow. It has arguably also had a far greater impact on the surrounding culture than Quakers have achieved in recent decades.

Of course we can’t know anything for certain about the future of Quakerism in Britain. The point of trying to discern where we are heading is so that we can invest our energy, time and resources in what is emerging, rather than spending all our efforts on managing decline. For the possible future shape of Quakerism described here, that might involve three main priorities:

Providing a consistent way for newcomers to learn Quaker practice and spirituality.
At the moment, incredibly, we don’t do this at all. If we want new (and not so new) Quakers to be able to access the potential of the Quaker way, we need to offer them a pathway to understanding core Quaker practices. The pernicious myth that newcomers will somehow pick it all up ‘by osmosis’ has contributed to the current state of many of our meetings, where few, if any people feel confident about their Quaker practice, or able to express it to others.

An organisation may be able to limp along despite this, as long as it can persuade enough people to keep the institutional wheels turning, but a movement relies on a shared understanding of what it has to offer.

Over the years, we have developed excellent resources for this purpose such as Becoming Friends, which we have inexplicably allowed to lapse into disuse, so that most meetings are not offering any regular learning programme at all.

Supporting the ministry of young people.
The great majority of local meetings currently completely exclude children, and consequently their parents and carers as well. Our Quaker youth development workers offer year-round Quaker activities and community-building for children, young people and families. But there are currently only four areas of the country with youth development workers, on short term funding provided by a handful of area meetings. Young adult Quakers are completely absent from most local Quaker communities, which are arranged exclusively to suit the needs and interests of retired people.

A movement needs to nurture the participation and ministry of young people. We need children and families to find a sense of belonging in the Quaker community. We also urgently need the gifts and perspectives of young adult Friends. This means supporting young people to discern their gifts and leadings, and redirecting resources towards training, mentoring and empowering younger Friends.

Actively inviting people to explore the Quaker way.
A thriving Quaker movement depends on inviting people to find out what the Quaker way has to offer them. It’s very difficult to come to a party that you haven’t been invited to.

An invitation is nothing to do with pressuring people or trying to convince them of anything. Friends who think that saying ‘we don’t proselytise’ justifies keeping the Quaker way to themselves have been allowed to squash spiritual generosity for too long. This has to stop. Instead, we should be extending a continuous and generous invitation to everyone who is looking for what the Quaker way has to offer - deep spiritual encounter, an inclusive and accepting community, and mutual support in working together for a better world.
 
The group Discovering Quakers has recently started to do this, with a campaign of online advertising that has attracted thousands of new enquirers and potential Friends. They have now started to introduce enquirers to local meetings that have signed up to welcome them (more information here).
 
The future of British Quakerism is not a story of decline, but of transformation. Transformation involves giving up some things that we have worked hard to maintain and have rightly cherished. There is a real need to grieve for what has served us in the past, including beloved historic buildings and institutions. One Friend at the conference compared the elaborate committee structures of Quakers in Britain to the elegant ruins of historic monasteries such as Rievaulx Abbey. But she reminded us that the point of these structures is the life that was expressed through them. When the Spirit is leading us somewhere new, we do not serve it by clinging onto old structures, but by discerning and nurturing the new forms that enable the Spirit to move in and through us today.

Where do you see the Spirit leading us as a Quaker community in the future? How can we nurture the new forms of Quakerism that are emerging?

10 comments:

  1. We either transform or we wither away. Resurrection is a real thing but the outward form has to disintegrate first. The dandelion flower turns into seeds which are spread everywhere by the wind,

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  2. ……but what are “core Quaker practices”? And what about core Quaker BELIEF (and yes there is such a thing)? People ask “What do Quakers believe about……” and ten Quakers give eleven hugely divergent answers. And we insist that this can only be a good thing, and, despite Friends’ increasing “diversity” being accompanied by decline we see the way forward as…..more “diversity”! I don’t advocate narrowness, but any organization has boundaries. Suggesting this gets you accused of being “intolerant”. There needs to be SOME measure of consensus as to what we are, and what we are not. There is less and less.

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    1. I've written about my understanding of core Quaker practices here: https://transitionquaker.blogspot.com/2014/08/what-does-it-mean-to-be-quaker.html
      I'd argue that focusing on beliefs is a misunderstanding of the Quaker tradition. In fact, most religious traditions (with the peculiar exception of Protestant Christianity) focus more on shared practices than identical beliefs.

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  3. I'm an 'attender' of Quaker Zoom meetings, and until a recent house move I attended a Meeting in person regularly.
    It seems to me the perception from outsiders of this 'Religious Society of Friends' is 'diversity' is interpreted as 'non religious'. The reluctance to present clear objectives seen as proselytising suggests a self-righteous and unfriendly exclusivity. So neither particularly religious or friendly!
    Quakerism has so much to offer , so please don't hide your light. The world needs Quakerism!

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  4. Dear Craig,
    Thank you for this article, and for sharing some of the thoughts generated at the Future of Quakerism conference.
    I too would like to see the “Becoming Friends” reconstituted, and more easily accessible resource materials in general. A member of Oxford Meeting, I am currently based in New England, and running a prison ministry for which I found it necessary to create my own (far from perfect) literature to explain Quakerism to the men. This was time consuming, but rewarding, and it seems as if it spoke to those attending our regular Meeting for Worship, who - after our discussions - see Quakers as very ’now’ / of this moment in time, rather than a dead or dying faith.
    Thanks again for the thought-provoking articles.
    In Friendship,
    Eamonn.

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  5. Thanks for this post Craig. I think a clarity of vision is needed, not just of what we want Quakerism to look like in the future, but in what Quakerism is, and having a consistent way of inducting people into Quakerism is a big part of that.

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  6. Ten years ago our very, very old Meeting house needed a new roof, and that inevitably led to further necessary work. I, and one other member of the Meeting, felt we should sell the building and use the money to buy or build a modern, easier and cheaper to manage, building in the nearby town, and do Quaker work and be seen to be doing ‘Quaker work’. But no : “We can’t sell it! It’s a listed building! It’s part of Quaker history!” etc etc…… So we spend much of our time and money keeping the building going. We do no ‘outreach’ but somehow new people find us and the Meeting isn’t shrinking - yet. Thank you for this very useful writing about the conference, Craig. I often think: ‘if only we were DOING something, rather than sitting under a new(ish) roof in a safe historical building’. A friend asked me recently if I wasn’t already a member, would I join today, and after a great deal of thought felt that I probably wouldn’t.

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  7. Thank you for this Craig. It echoes much of what I found in the conference. It was great to see you again as well.
    I feel the need to add and emphasise that the structures we currently have and the way in which we organise ourselves are not intrinsically Quaker. They are simply how we have chosen to do things and we are free to choose to do things differently.
    How we conduct ourselves is a different matter and central to this must remain the practice of discernment and the individual's submission to decisions made. This also involves understanding and acceptance of Quaker Faith and Practice, our Book of Discipline.
    I can see the Local Meeting and Area Meeting models changing. They actually already have, prompted by Zoom and other creative ways of engaging and belonging but we have not fully realised this yet.
    The Yearly Meeting will change structure but will remain the thing to which we ultimately belong but within this we may all belong to one or multiple other communities. I already do.
    Local Meetings do need to be less isolated. They need to be more Quaker Community oriented and more willing to collaborate and share with others rather than be stubbornly independent.
    Transformation and continuing revelation ..... it is what we are here for.

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