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One of the ways that
Early Friends differed most from modern Quakers is that they were
able to say with great clarity and conviction just what the purpose
of the Quaker Way is:
"The main thing in religion is to keep the conscience pure to the Lord, to know the guide, to follow the guide, to receive from him the light whereby I am to walk; and not to take things for truths because others see them to be truths, but to wait till the spirit makes them manifest to me."(Isaac Penington)
In other words, the
Quaker Way is a vehicle, a means to direct us towards the Inward
Guide, so that we can be taught and guided by the Light in our own
consciences. Early Quakers recognised that there is one Inward
Teacher, Guide or Spirit, that speaks to all people in all times and
places, no matter what their culture or religion. The purpose of
Quaker worship, testimony, culture and organisation is nothing else than this – to help us to attend to that Inward Guide
and follow it. It is that simple; simple but not easy.
The difficulty that all
of us experience in staying close to the guide is the main reason we
need to be part of a community. A Quaker community should practice
the communal discernment that helps us to distinguish the voice of
the Spirit from our own wishes or obsessions. It also preserves the
memory of ways that Friends have been led by the Spirit in other
times and situations, which can help to sensitise us to how the same
Spirit is speaking to us now.
Quaker texts such as
Advices &
Queries are a practical guide to areas of our lives we may need
to pay attention to in order to 'get our lives in order', so that we
can become more sensitive to the guidance of the Spirit. Instead of
commandments (eg 'Do not lie'), they contain searching queries, such
as 'Are you honest and truthful in all you say and do?' (Advices &
Queries 37). There are no rules or commandments because the aim is
not to tell us what to do - 'to take things for truths because others
see them to be truths', but to help us to pay attention to the ways
that the Spirit may be nudging us to get free of the entanglements of
our compulsions or self-deception, so that we can be become more attentive listeners and followers.
This is also the
function of Quaker testimonies. As records of the faithful
discernment and action of Friends throughout history, they serve to
remind us of the directions in which the Spirit has led Friends in the past, so that we can become more attentive to
the 'promptings of love and truth' in our own hearts.
The early Quaker
testimonies included a fairly diverse range of specific behaviour
including 'plain
speech', refusing to fight or swear oaths, and abstaining from
gambling and 'frivolous amusements'. These actions arose from
specific challenges facing Quaker communities, and their discernment
of the ways that the Inward Light was calling them to respond. The
testimonies have changed over time, reflecting changes in society and
in Friends' discernment, so that some testimonies have been abandoned
or modified (such as plain speech and rejection of music and the
arts), while others have emerged or gained in importance, such as
testimonies against slave-holding, conscription and war, and the
recent recognition of same-sex
marriage.
In recent decades these
testimonies have increasingly been translated into a set of abstract
principles, usually summarised as 'Simplicity, Truth,
Equality and Peace'. This has had the effect of turning concrete
commitments to action into a set of abstract 'Quaker principles', removed
from real-life contexts, that we try (and usually fail) to 'live up
to'. The attempt to live perfectly ethical lifestyles by 'applying'
Quaker values and principles to our decisions mistakes the signposts
for the destination. It frequently leads to a stifling sense of guilt
or, worse, self-righteousness as we compare ourselves with others,
instead of focussing on the guidance of the Spirit that is
particularly for us, at this moment.
Each one of us has a
unique calling, we have been given a life that contains unique gifts
and a unique opportunity to bring more of God's love, justice and
beauty into the world. Our task is to find that calling and to follow
it. We won't find our calling by choosing a set of abstract principles of moral perfection and
trying to live up to them. The only way is by paying attention to the
inward guide, and allowing it to lead us into the life that is waiting
for us, on a path that nourishes our souls.
This friend speaks my mind.
ReplyDeleteIdealism, the placing of 'abstract principles' as more important than direct experience, is pernicious and dangerous because it makes ends more important than means. In the twentieth century this resulted in death and misery for millions as tyrants sought to impose the abstract principles of communism, socialism and fascism on entire populations. It continues with the imposition of neo-liberal economics, one of the most idealistic of all.
The early Quakers called 'abstract principles' 'notions', and we would do well to realise that our high sounding ideals are but mere notions if they do not arise directly from our felt experience. They become idols which we worship instead of the true spirit of grace.
The way to dispel such tendency towards ideals and notions is indeed to be in a 'community', except that such thinking turns 'community' itself into a notion or ideal. This is especially important to realise when talking about a 'sustainable' community, since, more often or not, when talking about 'sustainability' we have in our heads notions of some perfect idealised future where everyone lives in harmony with 'nature' - whatever that is. We then seek to impose such ideals on our own community, causing misery and guilt on the one hand and self-righteousness on the other.
You cannot 'create' a community'. You cannot 'build' a community. Communities do not 'grow'. There is no end to build for or grow towards. A community emerges, fully formed, by grace, and by grace alone, and simply deepens with time as the spirit revels truth to us.
This is a fine posting Craig. I thank thee for thy ministry.
ReplyDeleteA fascinating post. Thank you so much for sharing.
ReplyDeleteI've just re-read this and it (still) feels like a very important message to me. Thank you for writing it.
ReplyDeleteDear Friends,
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading, and for your kind comments.
Great to hear from you Sharon, hope you are well.
In Friendship,
Craig